Sexological Bodywork Sessions
What happens in SB sessions?
One of the main tools of sexological bodywork is erotic and at the same time therapeutic touch. That is why it is very important to make sure that the connection between the professional and the client feels right and safe. In the introductory session the client and the professional typically get to know each other, get a feel for the dynamics, discuss intentions, boundaries and possibilities for further cooperation. The sexological bodyworker will offer a plan of sessions to the client, explaining different practices for experimenting.
Sexological bodyworkers follow the code of ethics established by The Asociation of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, and according to these rules the professionals cannot initiate any step without a solid consent from the client.
The most important skill that the client can learn in sessions is to be present and aware of his or her bodily responses. During the whole process of learning the client will be encouraged to communicate his or her own desires and boundaries, being empowered to choose the direction of experiments. Our experience shows that learning to make choices has much deeper impact on the development of an individual than following someone’s instructions.
The session may include explanations on anatomy and principles of arousal, demonstrations of orgasmic exercises, receiving erotic touch (only unidirectional one), pelvic release techniques, work with boundaries, sensate focus and much else. To maintain the process or transformation, the client may get home tasks focusing on solo or pair practices.
Since people learn through mindful practicing over time, sexological bodyworkers seldom have just one or two sessions with one client. Of course, different people have different needs. Some people need three months for solving their issues, some people need years. Sexuality is very complex and it encompasses more than just sex and genitals. Changing habits that we have accumulated in the course of our whole lives and learning new skills is not so easy and may require time, energy and resources.
Who is sexological bodywork for?
Sexological bodywork can benefit those who would like to learn how to sustain arousal, let it expand throughout the whole body and unfold breath-taking orgasmic potential.
Sexological bodyworkers also help clients work through sexual issues and concerns by developing new neural pathways. The methods of sexological bodywork emerge from the junction of practices from time-tested traditions such as yoga, meditation and Tantra, and cutting-edge research in neuroscience, psychology and somatic learning theory.
These practices, involving breath, movement, sound, touch and mindful awareness, build the connection between the mind and the body, to get fully back in touch with our physical sensations and emotions.
We offer sexological bodywork services in cooperation with Daniela Torp.
About Sessions
In all our Sexological bodywork sessions, we strictly adhere to the following code of ethics:
- A real Sexological bodywork (SB) can only be performed by a certified masseuse or masseur who have qualified through a professional training program provided by an approved institution. All our SB teachers are versed in physiology, acupressure and reflexology and original training of this profession.
- Sexological bodyworkers do not provide any erotic services and they do not use their bodies to give a massage. They use specialised tools designed for this end. The touch is one-way in the direction from the SB to the client. Mutual touch is not acceptable. The SB always fully respects the client’s boundaries. The choice between being naked or being clad in their own/disposable underwear or in a sarong is the client’s only.
- The SB leads the client through a session and teaches them an appropriate breathing technique and thus a deeper experiencing of their own body and its states. A SB session can include the intimate parts and anus, but this is always done without any sexual undertones. Reaching an orgasm is not a goal of the SB session and intercourse or any other sexual practices between the teacher and the client are strictly out of the question and never occur.
- If the client is not satisfied with the session, they can end the session without explanation. In such a case, we only charge for the time actually spent in the massage, not for the full session.
- All our SB are obliged to confidentiality and never share information about the client or the course of a SB session.
- The massage takes place under thorough hygienic conditions. In case of a massage of the intimate parts, the SB always uses disposable sterile gloves and lubricating gel without added chemicals. Right before the treatment, the client takes a shower and the SB washes their hands with antibacterial soap.
- All cosmetic products and massage oils used are organic.
- The client can always choose the oil and the intensity of touch.
- We keep the whole space clean and tidy and we ask the same of all our team and clients.
For women
Vaginal mapping - acupressure
A woman’s womb is the source of female power and the cradle of life, and it holds female spirituality and vitality. Your vagina is both the strongest and the most vulnerable source of your feminine essence.
Pelvic floor
These sessions are suitable for both young mothers (pregnancy, postpartum), mature women and active women at retirement age, with or without symptoms. We can work on prevention as well as resolving problems that have already arisen.
Scar work and orgasms
From what we meet in our practice, it is evident that scars generally do not get enough attention. With us they are a priority, and it doesn’t matter if you have a small scar or a big one.
Cervix awakening
The session is recommended if you don’t experience pleasurable or orgasmic states when the area is stimulated.
And of course if you feel a lack of connection with this part of your body.
Anal mapping
It is important to attend this session if you are experiencing pain or numbness in the anal area. We especially recommend it for people who would like to enjoy pleasant feelings during their intimate time, but it is not possible for any reason.
For men
Prostate mapping and massage
Massaging and otherwise working with the anal area is especially important for men because of prostate health. But the experience itself is equally crucial because it helps men understand how women experience sexuality by facilitating intense, multiorgasmic, whole-body experiences similar to those women achieve through the vaginal area.
Scar work, pain with intercourse
If you have a scar on your body, your fascial system will be out of balance. Over the course of time, the unattended scar can start causing trouble and shorten various muscular parts in the body. Scars generally do not get enough attention. With us they are a priority, and it doesn’t matter if you have a small scar or a big one.
For couples
Vaginal mapping
We recommend these sessions to couples in which the woman experiences pain during intimacy or intercourse. The pain can be psychosomatic or purely physical, experienced in the intimate parts.
The sessions are equally recommended for partners who have the feeling that they don’t understand female sexuality and sexual experiencing.
Anal mapping
Learn to use these techniques together, especially if you feel that your sexuality has reached a dead end and boredom is starting to creep in.
We will help you understand the anatomy as well as overcome the fear and shame that work with this area might be burdened with.
Scar work
If you have a scar on your body, your fascial system will be out of balance. Over the course of time, the unattended scar can start causing trouble and shorten various muscular parts in the body. Scars generally do not get enough attention. With us they are a priority, and it doesn’t matter if you have a small scar or a big one.
